
I wrote this on May 22nd, then, I didn't have the will or strength to post it. I felt like I was being too whiny or negative, I was trying to protect my image, I suppose. Now, however, I have decided that I want to document this time, in ALL of its many shades. So hold on while we time travel back to May....
Back in March, Zibbi began her birthday planning in earnest. Her vision was a tea party where everyone would dress up. We had a great many talks about exactly how she wanted her celebration to go. She set aside all the costumes. She created a box of items she would need. Then the pandemic hit the US. Schools closed. The prediction was that Wisconsin would peak exactly on Zibbi's birthday, May 22nd.
Evelyn arrived this morning to surprise Zibbi with an outdoor/socially distanced chat. Zibbi sat in our van while Evelyn sat in a chair 10 feet away. Evelyn gave Zibbi the same Barbie Mermaid set she has, so they can Marco Polo play. It was surprisingly sweet. Meanwhile, as we were outside, Thom, Benja and Lotta raced around the dining room, decorating it with streamers and signs. When Zibbi returned inside, everyone shouted, "SURPRISE!" To which, a shocked Zibbi, exclaimed, "Wait, what? Are there more presents?" No, in fact, there were not.
No we cannot do what we would normally be doing to celebrate the passage of time. We are being forced to reset our expectation and be way more creative. I appreciate that Zibbi was so very willing to come up with an alternative plan that worked for her. It IS however exhausting.
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