Sifferent

 Ellie created the word, "sifferent" to combine the "same" and "different".  I think it so perfectly describes our time now.  We think things will be the same, but in fact they are quite different.  Very similar in feel to "sappy" or sad + happy.  It's really about being able to hold two opposing ideas without having your mind blown.

Speaking of things that are sifferent, I thought I should take a moment to describe Lotta's birthday on August 15th.  Particularly important since the last blog was about Zibbi's birthday.   I don't want to be accused of favoritism (one of the worst "isms" within a family).  

Lotta's original vision for her birthday was a LARGE beach party, followed by a smaller slumber party.  None of which was happening because of Covid-19.  Lotta, as Zibbi did, regrouped and came up with an alternative "bunny themed" family party plan.  

I heard recently, that we make memories around things that are out of the ordinary.  Because every day is so similar right now, when we recall this time period, it may seem like one looong hazy day.  I set out to once again, make a memory for Lotta's birthday.    

What Lotta recalls most now about her birthday back in August, was how we were all sitting outside, when, suddenly, Benja started talking about something off topic (it was a code word).  We all went inside quickly (hopefully before she could notice).  We reemerged a few moments later singing "Happy Birthday" while all wearing brand new rabbit shirts.  She was surprised and delighted.  Nailed it (I'm not sure if I'm using this term correctly.)