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March is filled to the brim with fun birthdays in my family. Get your calendars ready because here we go. The 3rd is Kirk, the 6th is me, the 8th is Kip, and the 14th is Susan, the 19th is my mother-in-law's, somewhere in there is my Aunt Suzanne's (could someone let me know when this is?) . Not to mention the 27th is Ben's (he is already very busy inviting everyone he encounters to his dinosaur birthday party.) Today my youngest brother, Kirk, turns 30 years old. However, in my mind he will always be an adorable 3-year-old regardless which birthday has passed.
As I was thinking of what I wanted to say to Kirk, I was mindful of the fact that Kirk is not one to enjoy being the center of attention or being talked about or blogged about for that matter. However, I feel I would be remiss if I did not honor him on this momentous day, and hopefully, I will bring him joy rather than irritation through this sharing. A few days before Valentine's Day, I heard this song on the radio which so completely captures how fortunate Ellie makes me feel. I realized as I thought about Kirk today, that part of this song applies to him too.
In my Daughter's Eyes performed by Martina McBride
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[/caption]In my daughter's eyes I am a hero
I am strong and wise and I know no fear
But the truth is plain to see
She was sent to rescue me
I see who I wanna be
In my daughter's eyes
In my daughter's eyes everyone is equal
Darkness turns to light and the
world is at peace
This miracle God gave to me gives me
strength when I am weak
I find reason to believe
In my daughter's eyes
And when she wraps her hand
around my finger
Oh it puts a smile in my heart
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[/caption]Everything becomes a little clearer
I realize what life is all about
It's hangin' on when your heart
has had enough
It's giving more when you feel like giving up
I've seen the light
It's in my daughter's eyes
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[/caption]When I am with Kirk, I do feel like I am a hero. The two of us have such great conversations, we connect . He really listens to what I have to say as if I am wise and strong and have no fear. There is so much more to say, but I know that Kirk would not want me to talk about all of his biness. I mean, I could talk about how generous he is or how inspires us with his ability to make things happen or what a great friend he is, but I will refrain. I just wanted to thank him for making me feel like the person I want to be. I love you, Kirky.
Happy birthday, Kirk!
ReplyDeleteWow. What a great brother and fantabulous famdamly you have, Debi!
Can I take you out to dinner for your birthday?
Did you like the song? I mean I was sobbing in the car when I heard it on the radio. Thom has forbid me to listen to it while I'm driving b/c he thinks it creates a major hazard for me. Yes, I do have a fantabulous family, we always have so much fun when we are together, I feel like I can be myself and dance and sing and laugh. I would love to go to dinner w/ you!
ReplyDeleteYes, Kirk is the MAN when it comes to generosity and being there for those who are "down and out". We all remember the time when he gave his last dollar to a homeless man in Chicago without a thought for himself. When he was in the hospital, so many of his friends said how blessed they are to have him as a friend because he is always willing to do good for others. Once again, thank you Debi for recognizing all the good in your siblings! You have made your mom HAPPY!!
ReplyDeletelove you much